Embracing 40: A Journey of Growth, Resilience, and Celebration!
In a few short days (August 6th), I will be 40!! It's a milestone I've been eagerly anticipating. Unlike some who feel the years creep up on them, I've been excitedly looking forward to this moment. Last year, I threw my husband, Brian, a surprise party when he turned 40. We decided to plan my big celebration together! No pressure or expectations, just pure joy and fun ahead!
As I prepare to embrace this new chapter, I can't help but reflect on the transformative year that has led me here. It started with some of the most challenging weeks of my life. We were grieving the loss of friends in a tragic car accident, leaving their three kids behind, a heart-wrenching experience that left an indelible mark on my soul. Our genetic child and her family (we donated embryos) came to visit, bringing joy and a sense of continuity amidst the chaos.
During those intense weeks, I drove over 1600 miles back and forth to summer camp. Amidst the emotional turmoil, I also experienced the pain of losing my closest girlfriends, leaving a void in my life that I couldn't ignore. To add to the mix, we faced a medical scare with our daughter, which was terrifying. All of this caused a strain on our marriage and household. Despite the challenges, my family and I pushed through. We weathered multiple medical diagnoses and made tough choices that led us to find ourselves again. Brian and I rediscovered our bond, and together with our kids, we learned the power of acceptance and authenticity.
As I reflect on my growth, I'm proud of the lessons I've learned. True friendship took on a deeper meaning as I discovered the importance of appreciating those who stand by me through thick and thin. Taking a proactive approach to my health, I embarked on a self-care journey, making positive changes to my diet and embracing exercise and stretching.
Though the road is long, I've taken the first steps toward a healthier and happier life. I've also dedicated time and energy to my business, making meaningful improvements and setting clear goals for the future. I've faced my share of medical challenges throughout my life, including infertility, eight surgeries, thyroid cancer, and a recent Marfan diagnosis. Still, I'm grateful for my relatively good health and perseverance.
Amid life's chaos, I've also discovered the beauty of simplicity and the joy of trying new things. Whether taking peaceful walks in the woods or exploring the art of Zentangle, these experiences have brought a sense of fulfillment and joy.
Standing at the doorstep of 40, I do so with open arms and a heart filled with gratitude. I'm proud of who I've become, the challenges I've conquered, and the love surrounding me.
Recently, I treated myself to a 40th birthday photoshoot (shoutout to Christina Bailitz Photography, our family photographer of 12 years), capturing over 200 memories that symbolize resilience, growth, and goodness in the world. Each photo reminds me of my journey, strength, and belief that I can conquer anything that comes my way.
So, here's to turning 40 and celebrating life's beautiful complexities! I encourage each of you to take a moment to reflect on your own journey, embrace your triumphs, and cherish the path that led you to this very moment. Let's toast to life, love, and the incredible power of self-discovery! 🎉🥂💖
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